The Gaming community is probably the most off reality and hypocritical community there is. The game states that having a sexual intercourse with a married women is an manly (or alpha like) trait.
Overall in the PUA’s community, there are three types of men who talk about game:
- The ones who advise but have only one woman (e.g. Vox)
- The ones who advise and are single, and do not understand that Life is about building a family (e.g. Roosh, Neil Strauss)
- The ones with low self esteem and follow one of the above, believing that it somehow makes them better human beings – “Alpha” as they would say.
Because for many of these Gamers (not all, fortunately) – often activists in the subreddit TheRedPill – the 2 first types are Alpha and anyone who disagrees is a beta. That’s an easy argument, a woman or a child would say the same: “if you disagree with me, you are a loser!”. Yet, They at least understood something correctly: these men have a good analysis of hypergamy and r-selection.
In their words, Game is an extension of nature, aka “adapt to your environment”. But this arguement is too easy – at least for white males.
Nobody asks you to respect a woman who doesn’t respect you – most women do not deserve respect at all, we know it – but holding the compass is your job, and doing the wrong things is not being a good compass for society.
Fortunately, there are more natural fundamentals: family, honor, pride, love, hate, violence. Of course, in the Game environment (r-selection), these parameters are secondary, where in fact they are essential for K selection. It is normal to defend one’s property from other males, using violence if necessary. Unlike what the Game teaches, men are not living dildos or made to get female by the hundreds. Their basic instinct might tell them this for some, but that’s not true for most white males. In general, (at least in the white community) men are builders, protectors, providers. In fact, fornication has never been associated with a healthy and evolving society, but on the contrary to its decline. Example? Rome, and dozens of other cultures cited in the book “sex and culture“, from J.D. Unwin.
Actually, when men tend to privilege pleasure over duty, they act and become like women. When they act with no morality, they are women. Gamers believe that “good” and “bad” are relative, but it’s not. Nature has a very clear definition of what is good and bad over the long run, else there wouldn’t be any rise or fall. That’s just an excuse to tolerate any kind of amoral behavior, starting from fornication, lying and other sins. The “end justifies the means” – yes, but only if your end is good one.
This is why I argue that most of the so called “Alpha PUA’s” are nothing else but women (and I am not the only one to think so). They believe they are of a higher value than the married men providing for their family, that is a lie. Yet, in case of a cheating wife, the recommendation is to let her go with the house and the children, while calling your lawyer…. impressive! What an Alpha and manly behavior! We definitely all have a lot to fear from these Alpha gamers.
Well, I argue that a man who soil your name and mess with your family has to pay the price. And violence is normal, natural and necessary response. Defending your honor is what are men made for.
The more I wonder about the more I think about these women being raped in Sweden, Germany and all across Europe. Where are these Alpha Gamers? What is their opinion on this? Do they even care? And what are they doing to protect their land and their women? The answer: Nothing.
Yet they call themselves Men.