Eastern Europe is no hope for Western Europe.

Eastern Europe is often seen as a new hope by both the AltRight, the AltLite and the cucks. The last stronghold for European traditions, conservatism and the white race (even though East Europeans are not identical to their Western counterparts). Yet, no-one seem to have any experience living in these countries, nor questioning the eastern rationale behind the apparent white fortress they present. So, let me reflect on it with many years of experience in Eastern countries and the possession of multiple of their languages.

Let’s start with their apparent nationalism. Don’t be fooled by it and don’t get confused, it is limited to “strict nationalism”, not “white identity”. In eastern and central Europe, there is no such things as “white identity”. It is a big mistake to think or even hope that eastern and central Europe will ever be of any hope for the West. The people inhabiting these countries simply do not live in the same reality as their Western counterparts. They do not care about the death of Western whites, not at all. They only think about how much money they can get out of the EU. Of course, there are exceptions, but this is what appears to be the rule.

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So, firstly, besides being apparently completely opposed to any Islamic immigration, a street talk with most Poles will show you they have little understanding about what is happening in the West right now and that in the end, Muslims are good if they bring money. As example, I will refer to their huge trend of “kebabs”, even referring it to tourists as a kind of “new culture”.

Second point, as a Western European or American, you are welcomed as a consumer, not as a worker. They do not want any westerners to live long in their country even if they brag the opposite: that is just for the show. Their nationalism is limited to their own country, and they will always prefer to have Turks or Indians rather than Americans, Germans or French. Don’t expect any altruism on their part, and on the opposite be prepared to be screwed. The West can be at war tomorrow, and I can guarantee you that they will NEVER help you. They will look at you, and simply remind you of “how much Germans destroyed them in WW2”, and how “the rich westerners who feel superior can pay the price”. To some extent, you are more a wallet than a brother for them.

Third point, immigration still occurs for Indians, Blacks, Latinos, Turks and Arabs. These people are considered as gold, and their women DO JUMP on them. They use this immigration as virtue signaling and really do enjoy showing how great India or Latin America is. In fact, Indians are considered to be better than Whites in IT. Latinos must be imported for music, dance and human relations. Blacks must be imported because they are fun. The racism of Eastern Europe is a MYTH, clearly.

Fourth, contrary to most popular believes, Cultural Marxism is well implemented in these countries, with officially even MORE SINGLE MOMS than in the west. Almost every woman has done an Student Exchange Program, and have “tasted” their international sex tourism, just like any western woman. Feminism is also very much present with actually more women graduated than men, also believing to be smarter than their men. In addition, the modern eastern woman raised in the city not respect men more than her western counterpart. Of course, 10 years ago was different, but the trend is growing much faster than in the West, believe me.

Last, contrary to the common belief, the amount of Muslims in these countries increases exponentially. There, you can see the difference on a monthly basis (not counting the entire buses full of Spanish horny men in Krakow or Warsaw). Despite being at the forefront of Anti-Muslim immigration and the #RemoveKebabs; there are plenty of Arabs, Turks and Kebabs everywhere. Even in small towns of a few thousands, there is ALWAYS a bloody kebab. When you ask the so-called “tough eastern” Hungarian or Polish men they will just reply: “Yeah it is ok because they work” or “we will break their head”. Yet, factually, I put more Muslims in place in their own country than they do. Their argument sounds like the ones from the 60s generation we had in the West.

In conclusion, it is important to know that Central Europeans do not live in the same reality as Western Europeans. They don’t know how the West got to this point. They don’t understand the true meaning of the European Union neither and they don’t care. They certainly don’t know about the Kalergi Plan, the white genocide, South Africa etc. They don’t have any long term plan and they intend to repeat every mistakes Sweden, Germany and France did in the past, just because it looks cool on the TV. So, don’t expect the east to help the west.

If you want to know who can help the west, better look in the mirror.

Why do women dress up sexy at work?

You got your first job, and you suit up. You go to work. Sure as hell that it is a serious place where sex is the last thing in the mind of any descent person. After all, that is what you learned at school: men and women are equal, and females have the right to earn money.

Fierce of your core belief system, you take the lift and see the first shiny heels with an elegant dress. In the lift, there are 3 other men, and somehow you feel strange. You get out of the lift and notice how the receptionist is smiling to an old man. You go to her to ask for your way, and her breast seems to be jumping around to reach your eyes. She stands up, looks at you up and down and asks you to follow her. Then, you notice her long legs, long hair, little smile, along with the perfect angle of her glasses falling on her nose.

Day by day, week by week and year by year, you finally get it. Women go to work for two things and both are around Sex:

  1. Get money for themselves: women who work tend to spend their money for themselves, telling everyone that she is independent, but that she does it for YOU, the boyfriend/husband. Nope… In the end she leaves you with paying most of the bills, the credit and/or rent, while she spends most of her money on her make-up, high-heels, etc. She uses her money to keep her SMV up while decreasing yours.
  2. Find a better match, cheat on their partner or get attention: at work, plenty of men walk in everyday. They meet hundreds of males, and can assess them in live. The race for the most handsome/healthy/strongest/richest/most powerful man is started. They all compete each other for it, and all talk rubbish to discredit competition.

Of course, it happens that some women do work well and for the good reasons (aka building society and/or sustaining a family). But these are rare, and I won’t be apologetic about them, since this is an abnormality of society, not something to celebrate. I won’t push for it. If it happens, it happens, end of story.

Keep this in mind:

  1. Red make-up is used to simulate a “high fertility” and hence attract more males (OR MORE FUCKABLE)
  2. Lipsticks, eye lashes, skin cream, etc. are used to make them look younger and healthier (OR MORE FUCKABLE)
  3. High heels change the biometrics of the body to make them look more attractive (OR MORE FUCKABLE)

In these 3 main make-up things, would you classify ANY in the category “to do a better job”? No. Women do go to work sexy in order to get banged, to get the chance to, or to leverage their ass for money (let’s call that the “classy business prostitute”). They call on “sexual harassment”, but that is exactly what they want. How convenient, isn’t it?

From Otto W. in 1904:

Women only think about Sex. But I say Sex as a whole, and not as the sole act… Women are fascinated by the Sex… Look at them at a theater act (film today), and watch them react at a simple kiss… Watch them how they react when they see animals copulating… Watch them around children… For women, Sex is everything… I call this “Maquerellage”.

Anyway, we ought to say it: women at work – aka in a company – represent a huge issue for our society. The cons outnumber the pro’s by many. Indeed, it breaks the natural authority and position of the male in the family by opening her the exit door widely, while also turning her away from doing what is really important: making children and taking care of them. Some women say “I can work and raise my children”, but honestly it is not possible. A woman who takes care of the home, of the children and keeps herself educated has no time for pretending to be the modern feminist hero.

In fact, women at work are much less efficient than men and receive the same salary for the same job (despite all legends given, I never met nor heard about one case that would fall under the category “discrimination”, while I see many white males discriminated on a daily basis). They take positions that should be handled by men, and the money that is legitimately for the men. Men do the job and create 90% of the value, it is only fair that they get the 90% of the reward. Also, these women cut the job market by giving literally twice as much as workers as before, and come to add complexity in the management (e.g. diversity programs, affirmative actions, etc.). They propose “new things” in the company that usually distance it from its core value (e.g. spending 6 months talking about colors, logos, clothes, etc.).

So, now don’t even bother wondering why your girlfriend or wife puts make-up and is sexier at work than at home: that’s because overthere she has the potential to get more than you.

54 men at 22yo, half drunk, apparently that is the norm

I was hanging around on YouTube and discovered this video (no need more than 5min, but feel free to watch everything):

Tyler is a PUA who gives seminars about game. Once in a while I like to check the decadence of society and what they are up to. Today, I saw this:

Tyler and his friend pretend to be gay. They ask the girl how many men she had. She hesitates, and after decreasing from hundreds to a hundred, she tells that she had 54 dicks men at 22 years old. Is she an exception? I wouldn’t say so. She adds that she would “like to make a family in the future”, and that “she feels shy at 22 for not being married – being from the southern part of america”.

You see, this situation is exactly the problem. Do you think that our ancestors pretended to be gay, joking around a women who obviously doesn’t know what she is doing. Wait… no. That is also part of the africanisation of the west. Our ancestor didn’t build our civilisation that way. They did some shit surely, but that was never the norm in our civilisation, unlike in Africa.

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You see, the problem with PUAs is not their diagnostic of women. They are right about many things, but their solution won’t make the society a better place. Making a family is a must, and truly, any quality women will refuse to date a PUAs. And when I mean quality woman, I mean a young hot smart virgin raised very traditionally who never was in a bar, a club or else. The girl that reads, and goes to gather mushrooms during the week-end. The girl that truly wants a family and a normal man. Yet, I know, this is rare. But keep in mind this: how do you want women to be that way, if what we value the most is fucking around this kind of slut?

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To this, PUAs would say: “but hey we know what’s a good woman. I know what I value the most! We’re just having fun around, nothing bad dude. And these are sluts. If you don’t understand that, then you are a fucking beta”. Well, the truth is that we do is what we value the most, and sometimes what we value the most is not what we would like to. So, that is a problem with oneself then. In addition, I would say that these men are truly losing their time. They should have kids and a good wife, or doing something useful for our society, and this is not the case – at all. If their goal is to get the best good woman they can, why do they go for sluts?

Concerning that girl, I am sad, honestly. She is useless, wasting herself as she has absolutely no idea. She follows the Cultural Marxist propaganda, even if somewhere deep deep down she knows it destroys her. When she says “I’d like to get married”, they could just answer”yes, you are a bitch. No-one wants a slut like you as a wife. That is really sad. By being here, you won’t meet anyone to love you, and tomorrow you’ll be sad again. You are just a waste and you should go home”. I personally told this to girls many time. They simply cry, and eventually most of them become big fan of me, and I have to follow me. I have to push them back strongly, and believe me, it makes them think. Yet, here, Tyler and the others laugh about it in the video, but I don’t. I hate feminists, and I hate this kind of women, for what they do to our society. It is not funny, not at all. Our decadence has nothing funny, honestly. We ought to put order in this, and to do this, we must demonstrate what real men do.

SJWs and PUAs: just an indentity crisis

Cultural Marxism is a fight against one’s identity: the typical SJWs ought to fight human nature for becoming zombies aligned with the Marxist ideology. That is their life purpose. But since there is nothing but thin (and sick) air in this ideology, how do you think people end up?

Well, exactly like that. They end up with an identity complex. They are completely destroyed and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

Sadly, SJWs are mentally sick people, just like 30% of women have a mental disorder.

Sad, but true. Now, I wanna make an analogy with some PUAs. I know that in the “RedPill” world it is difficult to express any narrative against this community, but I don’t like dogma. So let me elaborate.

Their core ideology is also about identity issues: you are not manly enough to get a woman, so you gotta work on yourself, on your personality. So far, so good. Then, PUAs propose some coaching, taking the hypothesis that they are somehow better men, because they fuck more girls than you. Let see the results:

I see a pattern! 🙂

Take care of you and keep on fighting for the good side. Truth is you don’t need to be someone else; just be yourself.

What is a real man?

The big irony in the “Game community” is that everyone tries to tell how a so called “alpha male” is supposed to act, rather than focusing what are the foundation of being a MAN. This “acting as alpha” is anything but manly. Man don’t fake being someone else, they are. Faking personality is more of a female trait, not a manly one. So what is being a man?

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First of all, it is worth noting that men, just few decades ago, did not bother with that question. What changed? Why are today’s men lost? And what are the consequences? Education, media, Internet changed everything for sure, but these are only elements to the answer, not the answer itself.

Let’s start with a cold, yet difficult to digest, reality. Female humans, unlike the rest of the animal kingdom, are not able to do much compared to their male counter part. Female lions and wolves do hunt. Female dears and rabbits will find their food even pregnant. Female humans can hunt only using man-made tools and techniques. The same goes for agriculture and everything that follows. They are of course capable to learn. But creativity, physical strength, ingenuity all remain almost exclusively manly attributes. A “back to the wilderness” that would include only women would obviously end up in a disaster.

If one thinks on an evolutionary stand point: division of labor is probably the reason why female humans got so “weak” and “fragile” over time. Men went hunting and gathering. Women took care of children. Besides, human children are the least capable progeniture in nature (they are the only ones who cannot walk at birth), and they need a huge amount of care. And this is what women “specialized” into. They can easily communicate with them, they have a more urgent need to care and nurture them. This is a basic fact.

And from a Christian point of view… God made us this way. And the paragraph just above explain why he decided to do it this way.

So back to the question: What is being a man?

Being a man is doing everything the women cannot do.

Naturally, as of today, women work has become extremely easy thanks to all home appliance and care centers. So they can indeed take place in the work force. And the man is left with a few key responsibilities in society:

  • Uses his brain for thinking and creating
  • Acts: is always in the actions, rather than worrying
  • Builds: outstanding buildings, homes, machines, computers, etc.
  • Gets fits and strong
  • Protect his family, his community, his fatherland
  • Brings money, security, safety and sacrifice to his family
  • Inspires his family
  • Leaves a mark
  • Doesn’t fear to fight, nor to die for what is right
  • Takes decision, is sharp
  • Shows rationality when women become emotional
  • Shows morality, sets the direction
  • Helps the weak, challenges the strong

With this in mindset, you can stop bothering with 99% of all the advises given in the gaming community. A man has to start by accepting who he truly is.

Do some sports, be strong, have a purpose, work hard, dress well (stay classy, no need to spend 3 hours in front of the mirror). Get a job that suits you well (if possible). Help the community. Accept who you are so you can be self-confident. Identify true friends and foe. Imagine the kind of women you want to be with. And Go, any time you meet one available matching your criteria.

And when confronting a women: be calm, because you are the price. What can she do that you can’t? What is impressive? Women have one purpose in your life: making a family. That is as simple as that, and you need only one. If you are sure about what you want, if you know who you are, you will show confidence. And women will appreciate you. Simple as that.

If a man knows what he wants out of life, he will not only show confidence. He will know that he is the price. Not the women.

That exchange program for your (cheating) girlfriend

Erasmus is an exchange program for students in the European Union and other great countries (let say… TURKEY!). Disguised as a learning or cultural exchange program, it is just a libertine and sexual exchange program.

When your girlfriend, daughter, sister goes to an exchange program or an Erasmus to South America, Spain, Italy, etc. This is what is likely happening.

Do not ever fall into the trap of believing that any exchange program is there to make people better, smarter or more educated. It is only there to waste their time, destroy their dreams and trash their emotions.

What do alt-right women think about Islam?

The year 2018 should be the year that sees the beginning of the end of feminism. It is a prerequisite to take back Western countries, because women in power will generally always keep fueling and creating mess. Frankly, feminist is not only a repulsive old cat women with hair on her legs, but also the 10 in her early 20’s chasing males to aquire more resources. There are no right wing women in the alt-right. They can be entertaining, nice looking, say good rethorics, but that’s all. They bring nothing new – at all.

That women, for example, summarised much of how they think:

You see, for women (99.9% of them), the problem of Islam is not what it is per se, neither are its consequences. No. The real issue are women’s privilege. As stated, they want to travel alone (aka increase their penis counter anywhere at anytime), and they don’t want to look back at their misconduct, neither emotionally nor physically. Do you know any woman having the ability to analyse her own behavior and nature objectively, whilst correcting it for the benefits of others, and against her own self? I don’t, not even one.

Almost all women only care for nothing else but money, attention and social privileges they get. Pleasure, lust and comfort is all they want.

Moreover, what would they say if they were really against Islam?

Well, they would say:

  • Islam has a point about controlling women
  • Islam has a point about women intellectual and physical inferiority as a whole
  • Islam has a point about defending traditions and family values
  • Islam has a point about patriarchy
  • Islam is bad because it promotes violence as a cohesion rather than love and trust
  • Islam is bad because it promotes sexual abnormality, such as pedophilia and consanguinity
  • Islam is bad for Europe and USA because it destroys the native culture
  • Islam is bad for Europe and USA because it takes Western women and destroys genetic legacy
  • Islam is bad because it is based on a false prophet that was a pedophile, and an murderer
  • Islam is bad because it blocks any human enlightening
  • Islam is bad because of polygamy
  • Islam is bad because it promotes (and requires) slavery
  • Etc.

More examples?

Or “being raped is not such a big issue” – especially if it is by a constructed hollywood superior man: the dark migrant.

Actually, no feminist seem to complain about Muslim rape. And it doesn’t seem to be a priority for right wing women neither, just like pedophilia is not. On the contrary, the main issue is that women are not free in Islam. As long as they can do what they want, Islam and immigration are good things. They even recommend it! Did you know that alt-right women went black or at least on the dick carousel?

Clearly, women’s rights in Islam are not the priority – at all. I do not care if women wear Hijab. Actually, if white women are scared of Islam, that is good thing! Why would white men fight to make Islam better for white women? Is that even a joke, or just a total rip-off?

This being said, don’t be mistaken, the point is to promote rational and moral behaviors with women. I think men should act as men, setting limits but also taking care of their women. As a man, you have the right to tell them to go to hell, as long as you do your part of the job. This war cannot be won with clean hands, that’s for sure, but we ought to keep them as clean as possible and to lead by example.

The truth about the GAME

The Gaming community is probably the most off reality and hypocritical community there is. The game states that having a sexual intercourse with a married women is an manly (or alpha like) trait.

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Overall in the PUA’s community, there are three types of men who talk about game:

  • The ones who advise but have only one woman (e.g. Vox)
  • The ones who advise and are single, and do not understand that Life is about building  a family (e.g. Roosh, Neil Strauss)
  • The ones with low self esteem and follow one of the above, believing that it somehow makes them better human beings – “Alpha” as they would say.

Because for many of these Gamers (not all, fortunately) – often activists in the subreddit TheRedPill – the 2 first types are Alpha and anyone who disagrees is a beta. That’s an easy argument, a woman or a child would say the same: “if you disagree with me, you are a loser!”. Yet, They at least understood something correctly: these men have a good analysis of hypergamy and r-selection.

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In their words, Game is an extension of nature, aka “adapt to your environment”. But this arguement is too easy – at least for white males.

Nobody asks you to respect a woman who doesn’t respect you – most women do not deserve respect at all, we know it – but holding the compass is your job, and doing the wrong things is not being a good compass for society.

Fortunately, there are more natural fundamentals: family, honor, pride, love, hate, violence. Of course, in the Game environment (r-selection), these parameters are secondary, where in fact they are essential for K selection. It is normal to defend one’s property from other males, using violence if necessary. Unlike what the Game teaches, men are not living dildos or made to get female by the hundreds. Their basic instinct might tell them this for some, but that’s not true for most white males. In general, (at least in the white community) men are builders, protectors, providers. In fact, fornication has never been associated with a healthy and evolving society, but on the contrary to its decline. Example? Rome, and dozens of other cultures cited in the book “sex and culture“, from J.D. Unwin.

Actually, when men tend to privilege pleasure over duty, they act and become like women. When they act with no morality, they are women. Gamers believe that “good” and “bad” are relative, but it’s not. Nature has a very clear definition of what is good and bad over the long run, else there wouldn’t be any rise or fall. That’s just an excuse to tolerate any kind of amoral behavior, starting from fornication, lying and other sins. The “end justifies the means” – yes, but only if your end is good one.

This is why I argue that most of the so called “Alpha PUA’s” are nothing else but women (and I am not the only one to think so). They believe they are of a higher value than the married men providing for their family, that is a lie. Yet, in case of a cheating wife, the recommendation is to let her go with the house and the children, while calling your lawyer…. impressive! What an Alpha and manly behavior! We definitely all have a lot to fear from these Alpha gamers.

Well, I argue that a man who soil your name and mess with your family has to pay the price. And violence is normal, natural and necessary response. Defending your honor is what are men made for.

The more I wonder about the more I think about these women being raped in Sweden, Germany and all across Europe. Where are these Alpha Gamers? What is their opinion on this? Do they even care? And what are they doing to protect their land and their women? The answer: Nothing.

Yet they call themselves Men.

Why women act as they do

That is the brain map of a man (up). And that is the brain map of a woman (down). See the difference? Now that is what our left and right brain do:

One doesn’t need to be a genius to understand what it means…

Women do no clearly separate their thoughts. They do not separate – biologically – their emotions from their reasoning. That means that women biologically tend to see the world through their sole perception, meaning their emotion. Since emotions are always self centered (even empathy), they can only be solipsistic. Their truth is not built through reasoning, it is memorized and felt.

They are unable of separating the abstract from the sensorial… But that is the foundation of morality! One can’t build moral standards if his emotions perturbate constantly his logic. Their sole escape is therefore an emotionally memorized morality. And to be fair, this exactly what the leftist school does: showers of emotions and codes of conduct (e.g. poor black babies die in Africa, help them! Men are bad and do not respect women, take from them!)… and obviously, that works.

When women think, they think according to what they feel right now. If it feels bad, it is bad. If it feels good, it is good. There is no separation in the brain that enables sorting the reality according to a broader perspective.

Since their brain is also self and emotionally centered, they also tend to believe that everything is either black or white. It is almost impossible for them to have a negative opinion without a good emotion, nor a positive opinion with a bad emotion. Example below with their translations:

“you ALWAYS do that”, “you NEVER do that” =  right now it feels like it was always there and never ended. Do what I want, or else it means that you give me bad emotions, and so it means that you are bad.

“all MEN are bad” = right now a man did (or I was told a bad story about) something that gave me very bad emotions. Therefore, all men are the same.

“I know one good black man” = One gives me good emotions, and this person defines my entire reality about race. Therefore, they are all good.

“I know one bad black” = One gave me so bad emotions, that this persons redefines my reality towards race, and I hate them all. We must kill of them, they are all bad.

I guess you got the logic: everything comes from what they feel. That is also why they fall for assholes easily: their emotions can make them blind to anything that is morally bad – plus Hollywood and school condition them to screw up. It works that way:

Behavioral memory built on wrong moral standards + emotions = conditionned disfunctional behavior

That is why it is impossible to have a serious rational discussion with a woman. Especially about this blog post: they will never agree and most likely enter an immense rage.

Exceptions will always be rules, and rules will always be exceptions, because there is no logic to drive rules out of their emotions.

Of course men also have the same property, but they are biologically advantaged not to behave that way. Men acting like women are called gamma. They think they are bosses or secret kings, while in fact, they are just women. Most of the so called “Alpha gammers” are actually gammas: their so called self development is fully focused on developing a better understanding and adaptive behaviour to women biology, rather than their own masculine biology.

Most politicians are also gammas, Trump and Putin being more or less the only western exceptions. That is why it is impossible to talk or solve any problem at a political level nowadays: we are led by women, trapped in the body of men – probably even worse than women. We are led by intellectually castrated men, some kind of “post modernist beta transsexual male”.

Now, add to this thinking pattern feminism, and you have an individual that is convinced that her reality and her feelings are morally right, good, smart and efficient FOR EVERYONE (because all that matter is themselves – what they feel). In a nutshell, a despicable being ready to do anything for her own good. Not pretty I would say.

Let’s conclude with a positive tone. Hopefully not all women are evil, and we still love them. The bright side is that we can control them for their own good, and as they are excellent at communicating with toddlers: make nice white babies and great families.

3 women manipulative behaviors

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It is for a fact that women are inherently manipulative. In fact, in our society, almost all women are mentally sick, and totally unable to handle normal relationships with anyone; even women.

Evolutionary process or complementarity from the creation, it doesn’t relieve the psychological burden that the modern woman adds on a man’s mind. In every situation, they tend to maximize their own benefits and to demonize their man – the famous guilt trick. Here I want to highlight few techniques that women use to manipulate men within a relationship, so that men can step back from their shit tests, put some perspective and see that a whole forest can actually hide the same trees.

Case study

She didn’t/doesn’t want to cook anything; even if she stayed the whole day at home while you worked 12 hours. Instead of being frank, she will say “we never go out to restaurant together, and you go with your colleagues. You don’t care for us!”. As such, she tries to make you feel guilty for not paying her a restaurant today, while depicting herself as a poor victim. You may not answer, laugh, agree and amplify, or whatever, but you will quickly notice that this game is just exhausting.

Your girl will usually alternate between a combination of these techniques:

  1. Negation and guilt trick: you answer straight “yeah, we never go, but where is the meal today”. She replies “you never understand anything”, starts ignoring you, and maybe texting with her “friends” just to make you feel bad.
  2. Aggressiveness: you keep standing and ignore her. Since no other men would be there to pay her what she wants, she has no other option but to push for it with you. She becomes aggressive verbally and/or physically. She insults you, shouts, hits you, or bites you. She is looking for “physical dominance“.
  3. Sudden calmness and caring: she comes to you nicely, maybe asking for apologies for her behavior. It seems that everything is gone. She hugs you and then she asks again what she wants. That step is the most important. She is now testing your true resilience. If you answer “no”, she will switch to one of the other strategies and give you another cycle, or accept her fate in sign of resignation.

Usually, these 3 strategies are combined over a more or less long period of time. It can last between 10 min to a couple of days depending on her emotional stability (or psycho score). Just note that you do not have to win all the battles to win the war, just the most important ones.

When it comes to women, knowing when and how to lose is also part of the art of winning.

What techniques can you use against this?

The answer is tricky. On one side, I would like to tell you that “agreeing and amplifying alike” techniques are good, but on the other side I want to point out the fact that any behavior that is not natural for you will eventually result in an outburst on your side. I believe that the most important is to remember that women communicate through “shit testing”, and that nothing is really serious. And if it is serious enough, she will leave you. But what is serious for her?

That is only serious if she believes that her sexual value enables her to get better without paying any price for it (social, emotional or material).

That leaves you with only one option: remain calm and do not give too much importance because your fate is already decided – unconsciously. Try not to take it personally, but remember that modern women are not reliable for most of them. They are all ready to leave you under whatever circumstance, should it maximize her well-being (social, emotional, financial or material). So, unfortunately, the sad truth is that whether she will or not stay with you is already communicated in her behavior. If she is not into you, or has better, she will leave you, and tell everyone how a poor guy you are.

That is why my belief is that the best option any man has today is to invest in what he does. Your value as a man is the only thing that will retain her. If you give it away to her, she will leave you. Also remember that any woman will try to take away your value, because if she is with you, it is foremost because she thinks that you are worth more than her. So, she also believes that all women think and feel the same. She projects her insecurity into jealousy and in fine into a “ball cutting” exercise – if she lowers your value under hers, then she can keep you with her, but unfortunately she will then want another man.

The sad paradox of women is that their happiness must always be controlled, always keeping them one step away from their true liberation.