It is for a fact that women are inherently manipulative. In fact, in our society, almost all women are mentally sick, and totally unable to handle normal relationships with anyone; even women.
Evolutionary process or complementarity from the creation, it doesn’t relieve the psychological burden that the modern woman adds on a man’s mind. In every situation, they tend to maximize their own benefits and to demonize their man – the famous guilt trick. Here I want to highlight few techniques that women use to manipulate men within a relationship, so that men can step back from their shit tests, put some perspective and see that a whole forest can actually hide the same trees.
She didn’t/doesn’t want to cook anything; even if she stayed the whole day at home while you worked 12 hours. Instead of being frank, she will say “we never go out to restaurant together, and you go with your colleagues. You don’t care for us!”. As such, she tries to make you feel guilty for not paying her a restaurant today, while depicting herself as a poor victim. You may not answer, laugh, agree and amplify, or whatever, but you will quickly notice that this game is just exhausting.
Your girl will usually alternate between a combination of these techniques:
- Negation and guilt trick: you answer straight “yeah, we never go, but where is the meal today”. She replies “you never understand anything”, starts ignoring you, and maybe texting with her “friends” just to make you feel bad.
- Aggressiveness: you keep standing and ignore her. Since no other men would be there to pay her what she wants, she has no other option but to push for it with you. She becomes aggressive verbally and/or physically. She insults you, shouts, hits you, or bites you. She is looking for “physical dominance“.
- Sudden calmness and caring: she comes to you nicely, maybe asking for apologies for her behavior. It seems that everything is gone. She hugs you and then she asks again what she wants. That step is the most important. She is now testing your true resilience. If you answer “no”, she will switch to one of the other strategies and give you another cycle, or accept her fate in sign of resignation.
Usually, these 3 strategies are combined over a more or less long period of time. It can last between 10 min to a couple of days depending on her emotional stability (or psycho score). Just note that you do not have to win all the battles to win the war, just the most important ones.
When it comes to women, knowing when and how to lose is also part of the art of winning.
What techniques can you use against this?
The answer is tricky. On one side, I would like to tell you that “agreeing and amplifying alike” techniques are good, but on the other side I want to point out the fact that any behavior that is not natural for you will eventually result in an outburst on your side. I believe that the most important is to remember that women communicate through “shit testing”, and that nothing is really serious. And if it is serious enough, she will leave you. But what is serious for her?
That is only serious if she believes that her sexual value enables her to get better without paying any price for it (social, emotional or material).
That leaves you with only one option: remain calm and do not give too much importance because your fate is already decided – unconsciously. Try not to take it personally, but remember that modern women are not reliable for most of them. They are all ready to leave you under whatever circumstance, should it maximize her well-being (social, emotional, financial or material). So, unfortunately, the sad truth is that whether she will or not stay with you is already communicated in her behavior. If she is not into you, or has better, she will leave you, and tell everyone how a poor guy you are.
That is why my belief is that the best option any man has today is to invest in what he does. Your value as a man is the only thing that will retain her. If you give it away to her, she will leave you. Also remember that any woman will try to take away your value, because if she is with you, it is foremost because she thinks that you are worth more than her. So, she also believes that all women think and feel the same. She projects her insecurity into jealousy and in fine into a “ball cutting” exercise – if she lowers your value under hers, then she can keep you with her, but unfortunately she will then want another man.
The sad paradox of women is that their happiness must always be controlled, always keeping them one step away from their true liberation.