Are you an alpha male? Do you think you are worth enough to be part of the myth?
Having been introduced to the PUA community, I had time to notice the adulation of this community for the myth of the alpha male. Just like Christians believe in god, they believe in their own divinity: the Alpha male, the man every women want.
Yet this myth is profoundly unhealthy for anyone out there. Sure it enables Neil Strauss, Roosh, RSD and other groups to make a living, but beyond this I would like to point out the truth and the lies in the so called “game”: To reduce manhood to the modern cultural Marxism definition. These superficial concepts are dangerous for both people and society.
Entering the PUA’s community is more or less thinking that you are some kind of loser who needs a guru to get a good woman. It is to assume that you can change your entire personality and become a Casanova. It is to assume that the problem is YOU. This couldn’t be further than the truth. What would a woman thinks of you if she knew that you need to become better to get her?
You can certainly evolve a bit, learn some tricks, but not much more. Your brain is hard wired after 25 years old and there is no way you can acquire significant behavioral changes. Before starting to think you are a piece of garbage, get some self confidence and do something with your life. Undertaking a life project is much more important than picking up girls in mass. PUAs are just another establishment’s concept of cultural Marxism which is meant to destroy the last remains of masculinity in European societies. By hanging out in clubs looking for the next bimbo you are actually both destroying yourself and women. Think about it: is it really worth going out? drinking? Partying and getting laid? Do you think this is your man purpose? Or it rather is remains of some reptilian, primitive and uncivilized instinct?
The truth is that “the person who you are” is already enough. Women have 2 purpose: make / raise babies and support civilization. Chastity of women and preservation of female duty are necessary not only to maintain a healthy society but also assuring the evolution of the latter. Of course don’t be a full out beta male: Don’t flatter women relentlessly and try to demonstrate your social skills, or show the last Neil Strauss magic trick: be a Man. Stands for what a man stands: identity, family, Western values, society, religion… Be a builder, a protector. Be sharp, be smart, be strong and more importantly put those who mess around back to where they belong (starting from PUAs).
In modern society an alpha is just a myth. Women actually tend to do what they are told to do. If it is to fuck latino’s, and get horny on Enrique, they will. Society tells them blacks are fun and honest people, they will believe it no matter what. And it has nothing to do with you. So your only purpose is to be a reference, to lead by example, to be strong enough to shake and wake those girls up. All else doesn’t matter.
Some women are fucked up and you cant do nothing about it. Your mission is to find a good young healthy one, make children with her and become a good grand father. Protect her, raise your kids, and stop trying to pick up girls massively. Once you know what you want and what you need, just go and take it. The rest will just get you lost into delusions.