Everything seems to be fine in your life. You got a beautiful girlfriend, you know how to game, have a good social circle, good job, etc. Your couple is doing ok, no big problem in sight….
Then one day, out of the blue, she wakes up and tells you she wanna go to the gym. Surprised, you don’t know how to react. After all, many girls go to gym, but why do they do that?
I have been observing girls at the gym for a long time, and I have read a lot, as you also did if you are here.
My first question : have you ever seen a “normal” woman (not the body builder nor the fat one) doing anything effective at the gym?
On my side, nope. Most women at the gym are really mostly annoying. They take space and machines for nothing. They could do the same at home, but they don’t. It seems the gym has something home doesn’t have… Let me think about it… MEN!
Men and women are hypergamic, as you probably know. We all look for a better partner according to sexual criteria written in our DNA. But it happens that men can control it much better than women.
Women are instinctive and mostly act without thinking. When they say they want to go to the gym, you must hear “I wanna check some other males”. Clearly, unless you are MUCH BETTER than her, she has no reason to do that.
At the gym, women have the opportunity to look at many single men who take care of themselves. Often, if you exercise seriously, you are also serious in your life: diet, job, etc. It doesn’t really matter if she wants to cheat or not. Naturally, women have three hypergamic instincts:
- Trying to find a richer, higher status man; she looks for security
- Trying to find a “sexier” man; she is looking for someone to give her an “orgasm”
- Create competition with you and see which one that will win; she tests your masculinity
In nature, monkeys (e.g. Gorilla, chimpanzee) do exactly the same – at their level. Females also go to other tribes and try to create conflicts. They harass other tribe members, or simply try to seduce other males and make sure to show it to their own male (see “Chimpanzee politics, Frans de Waal’s).
The only thing that counteracts naturally these elements is pregnancy and early breast feeding (scientifically called Lactational amenorrhea).
What is my point?
We are also part of nature, and women behave exactly like the animals they are. This is why they work and this is why they exercise: hypergamy. It doesn’t really matter how good she feels with you. It doesn’t matter how many orgasms you give her. Women are programmed to create troubles in your life, and they will do it. In fact, the higher male status you gain, and the more controlling and bitchy she becomes. The more she will challenge you with other males at some point. So what do we do? Should we therefore remain single and never have anything?
I didn’t say that, at all. The conclusion is simply that women have to be controlled. They actually look for a male that will control them, and a man who controls his life. They love the feeling of being conquered and being your “property”. The other important factor is her environment. A good family, less facebook, less TV shows, more reading and more church/mosque/synagogue will certainly reduce her sexual appetite.
Just keep in mind that a woman at the gym is always looking directly or indirectly for someone better than her current man.